Don't Be Sexually Selfish Men - Hold Your Orgasm and Please Her!

Studies have proven that nearly 70% of women do not reach orgasm during intercourse. It takes a bit more effort from our partners to lead us women to the ultimate climax. Problem is, our partners handle this fact all wrong. Either they play victim feeling useless that they cannot lead us to orgasm or they stop trying and only focus on pleasing themselves. We women want to orgasm too! Therefore I speak for many women when I say “Take your time, and lead us into ecstasy. Don’t be selfish!”

Unlike women, men can pretty much have orgasms whenever they please therefore I am positive they can retract their orgasms a little bit longer to focus on pleasing their woman. Men, if you are having difficulties making your woman orgasm here is a hint- Try focusing on pleasing her without sexual intercourse. Oral sex is sure to get your woman to orgasm because her clitoris is being stimulated. Sexual intercourse causes a bit of difficulty for us as women because not many positions are stimulating our sex button ;-)

In order to get your woman to climax you have to be sexually unselfish. During any position someone is getting more pleasure than the other. Because the female and male body is dissimilar when it comes to stimulation, not every position offers pleasure for both parties. This is perfectly normal. Something we fail to understand is even when we are pleasing our partners without intercourse we still get aroused because as our partner welcomes sexual pleasure, that arousal turns us on. Don’t believe it? Try pleasing your partner to their specific needs meaning focus on what most stimulates them. As they become sexually aroused it will turn you on and you will want to persist with providing sexual pleasure.

For men, when you are orally pleasing your woman you do not have to do so until she climaxes. Once you see she is extremely sexually aroused, begin sexual intercourse making sure you are still stimulating her sex button. Please do not orgasm before she does! This makes women feel like the sex is not to satisfy her but to only please you. As women we know we are not going to orgasm every time and because of this we would love to be sexually catered to once in a while just as we sexually cater to a man’s needs.  Men, when you hold your orgasm and allow her to reach her climax you show your focus on her body, her sexuality and your want to satisfy her.

So, did I teach a thing or two with this adult article? Many of you have already been well informed but have just been going about it in the wrong way. The point being made is women need a bit more sexual attention when it comes to reaching climax and the only way to feed that need of attention is for our partners to lose sexual selfishness once in a while and indulge in our sexualities as women.

The Written Words of AJT