"Women Lie Men Lie"

Oh how the man underestimates the intentions, doings and capabilities of the female!

It is as if men are conditioned to believe that their women do no wrong. They believe that while they are out doing their dirt or even when they are out doing good, that their women are at home faithfully waiting on them to get back. Well for some women this is the story. Some women find it pleasurable and more than enough to please one man but for many others (let me add a broad emphasis on MANY) they play the field just as much as men do or even more!

Yes it is true WOMEN DO CHEAT and the quicker men realize this the quicker they can break their conditioned mind of believing “a lady does no wrong”.

**Quick side note: This blog is not intended to dog my ladies but more so to be real and fair in confirming that when it comes to cheating it is definitely not one sided and when it comes to getting away with it, women have the upper hand.

Why? Because women are so afraid of being hurt that most of them never give their men the benefit of a doubt in the first place so once that intuition sets in they immediately act upon it. However, a man will usually ignore the signs and can be so prideful that he cannot even fathom the thought of his woman between another man’s sheets or another man between his sheets while he is working, flirting and out and about. And you wonder why men are so unlikely to catch their women in the act when she is jumping from bed to bed, or even between friends. A woman can be sleeping in a man’s bed one night and his friend’s the next and both men will still be believing that THEY ARE THE ONLY ONE. Is a man’s pride and ego so big that it leads to an overdose in denial?

DENIAL PLAYS A BIG ROLE IN MEN WHO NEVER FIND OUT THEIR WOMEN ARE CHEATING.

If a woman is treating him right, complimenting him, being a good woman to him he will never believe that she will sneak out on him with another man. However sorry to break it to the men, but this is all in the game and Oh did we not learn from the best? Men play it off very well. I have known a woman who was with her man and the “other man” for the same amount of years and was never caught out! How is this possible? And yes they were in the same town! She says, “I treated them both like Kings and till this day they have no idea and they think of me as the good woman who got away”

I GET IT- Men think women are so emotional; they could not handle the games, tricks and “emotionless sex” that come along with cheating and playing the field. Could it be that men are so into playing their game that they overlook the signs of their women playing the field as well? Or can it be they underestimate the power that women have? (We all know what that power is) One last huge question that I ponder on while I write this blog is- do men actually know when a woman is cheating but rather not address the issue because she is a “good woman” to him?

It is scientifically proven that males are less emotional than women, so would they really care if their woman was cheating? As long as she is doing right by him (keeping him feed in the bedroom and the household), would he care that she is creeping with another man?

Just think, it does not ruin his reputation but more so it tramples hers. We all know that once it gets around that a woman is “GETTING AROUND” she is automatically labeled a hoe, easy or whore. What is it that a man loses when he is in a relationship with a woman who sleeps around? He is getting some on the regular and is being treated like a king at home. Still as some men think this way, “why should I care because she is handling me just fine”, others find it repulsive to know that the lady he has been dealing with is spreading her legs for another man. This can turn a man upside down into a violent rage! Difference between when a man finds out a woman is cheating and when a woman finds out is the anger. A woman may throw a blow dryer but more than likely, if it is his first offense, she will be making love to him that same night. It’s just the typical emotional reaction that women give off. On the other hand, when a man finds out his woman is cheating he is not sleeping with her, he is gone! Not only is he hurt but in most cases it has killed his pride. He feels weak. Once a man’s pride has been at stake you can pretty much kiss the relationship goodbye.

Truth of the matter is both parties cheat. Sometimes we dog men so badly and we forget that the slickest individual in the game is the woman. Believe me men when you are cheating, 9 times out of 10 your lady knows that you are cheating. However if she is cheating 9 times out of 10 you won’t have a single clue! I would tell you how to know if your lady is cheating but through this blog I cannot abandon who I am. Definitely not a cheater, but I am a woman and there are some things between the code of the vagina that is never released. (wink)

The Written words of AJT.