Men need
to quit being so gullible and easily fooled by their women’s words when it
pertains to her body. If what she does to her body effects you as her man then
you need to have more proof than her words can provide!
When it
comes to your woman and her birth control if you do not see her take anything,
go to the doctors to get her birth control etc. then you need to make sure you
have your own insurance. CONDOMS gentleman!
But
beware because a woman will give you 3 sure lies/excuses when it comes to why
she wants to stray away from you utilizing a condom.
1. She is allergic to latex
2. She cannot feel it with a condom
3. She feels like you don’t “trust” her by wanting to use one
DO NOT be
brainwashed by these familiar excuses.
Not all
women are out to trap men into paternal matrimony. Not all women are out to
have a man’s baby who does not want a baby by them. However, this is not me
excluding ALL women; there are women out there who would take drastic measures
to keep a man around.
For some peculiar
reason many women have this “it will never happen to me” complex and they
choose to lie to their men about being on birth control because they “know”
they will not get pregnant. They are not necessarily trying to trap their men;
they are trying to feel closer to their men without any sexual boundaries and
for some women a condom can feel like a sexual boundary. It can make women feel
as if their man is not fully penetrating her as the skin-to-skin contact is
slightly reduced. Emotionally, sex attaches women and many want it
with no restrictions in hopes to obtain a more sexual bond with their
boyfriends/husbands etc.
The above
analysis is my take on why SOME women choose to refrain from condoms with their
partners whom they hope to be eternally committed to. But let us not neglect
that there are women who want a child, want the man in their lives forever and
result in lying to their partners about contraceptive methods.
My advice
to men is to keep your eyes open. Have you ever seen your woman take a birth
control pill? Has she ever explained her method to you? It may sound a bit
crazed, but if you are sleeping together without the stability of a condom then
you need to be 100% informed that she is being truthful with you about other
pregnancy preventive methods. She can be telling you one thing but doing
another.
Do not be
afraid to ask your woman what kind of pill she is on. What is the IUD? What is
the Ring? How long have you been taking it? What time do you take it? Do you
need me to go with you to pick up your birth control? These are not crazy
questions. You are both committed and trying to prevent something that will
change your lives forever therefore both of you need to be in the loop and dedicated
to whatever method you choose.
Lets be
real, I would say that condoms is always the way to go because birth control
alone does not prevent against STDs, BUT, I am being realistic in knowing that
many serious relationships refuse to use condoms. I do not judge anyone who
does. What I am saying is ladies, make sure you are being honest with your man
and do not set your relationship up for an event that the both of you are not
ready for. I understand it is your body but when you choose to share it with
your man and the possibility arises that you can be bearing his child then it
becomes his right to make sure you are taking care of yourself.
You are
both in this together so build truth, trust and secure PROTECTION.
The Written
Words Of AJT
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