Sunday 29 January 2012

"Ladies, Stop Fronting! You Want It Just As Bad As He Does!"

Many times I hear so many women call men “sex craving” animals well ladies what are we?

Now ladies, you can read this sitting high and mighty as you pretend that us women do not want it as bad as men do but the truth is…

IF WE DON’T WANT IT AS MUCH…WELL THEN WE WANT IT MORE!

(Hey, I have to be completely honest here right?)

Sometimes as women we allow our classiness to take away from our sexuality. We believe that we have to stay classy and sophisticated therefore we hide our sexual urge. However as ladies we need to understand when it is appropriate to hide it and when we need to reveal it. I do not suggest that we prowl the streets in search of a man to bring into our sheets NOW THAT IS FAR FROM WHAT I AM SAYING. What I am saying is we too often expect our man to pursue us in bed: well there is nothing wrong with taking charge and feeding our urge by pursing our men in bed. Showing him how bad you want it is not a turn off to any man. It is no hidden secret that a man loves his lady to be sweet, kind and classy in the streets but open to anything in the sheets. So ladies when you find yourself in your territory (you and/or your man’s home) show him how sexual you really are. Do not be so confined to stay within the lines. Give him something he can feel!! Wake up the next morning, get yourself together and head back to your business. CLASSY by day SASSY by night. =) And men think we do not have the same intensifying sexual urge? YEAH RIGHT!

Why are women probably more sexually needy than men? Just think- when men crave sexual satisfaction they call some girl they have in their phone as a sexual “just in case”. Men are not picky when they need something quick. A woman is totally different and that is why our urge is so much more robust. We will not just call anyone for a fix. We want the best! We want someone who is going to do what they been called to do and sometimes a woman has not come in contact with that toe curling man yet in her life…so she goes without. This automatically intensifies our sexual frustration. So why are women more sexually needy than men? WE HOLD OUT due to our standards MORE than men do.

I am positive that many of my ladies are going to bed gripping pillows between their legs because the urge is strengthening on a daily basis and they REFUSE to call someone who is mediocre in bed. Besides there is always Mr. Vib-Reliable. Women rather take out their batteries than go out to the club and bring a stranger in between their sheets. (I hope LOL)

So the truth is WE WOMAN WANT IT TOO! We may be a little more secretive and a bit PICKY when it comes to expressing those needs but trust me we want it just as much as you men crave it. While you men think you are the only ones looking at us women with sex craving eyes ummm we are looking at you too!

- The Written Words of AJT

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Some men are shy in bed. They feel as if they get too freaky they are over stepping the boundries of being a man or a homosexual man. So how would you express that as a woman to him without making him feel like his performance is whack?