Wednesday 7 September 2011

"The Power He Claims That She Doesn't Know Is Hers! "

“The power of the [vagina]” in URBANDICTIONARY.COM is described as “the power that beautiful women have! When you are under control of her power you are in a trance like state and the only source of comfort is her [vagina]. This power is activated after you have become one with her, and actually care very much about her. Its not just any [vagina] it HAS to be her, her persona, and everything else about her. The more you are attracted to the chick the stronger the pull to the warm, piece of Heaven between her legs. This force is inescapable! He might be tempted to buy her a ring, and forsake all other chicks, then the power has manifested itself.”

So why do men nowadays claim the power that women should so easily tap into? Let me brainstorm for a second here: Women are usually the ones craving for men EXCLUSIVELY. Men however, they do it behind closed doors. What do I mean by this? Well, women are more likely than men to let their emotions be known to the world. In doing this they allow their men to take advantage of their “known” emotions. Once a woman’s emotions are in a man’s possession the woman will become submissive without even knowing it. What happens next? He claims that woman’s power, especially between the sheets. Come on ladies when you are really into a man you cannot wait for your next encounter. Numbers show proof that women get their heartbroken on more occasions than men and that men hold the dominate stance in most committed, monogamous or dating relationships. However if we think for a second - who should really hold the power? I am sure we have all heard of the “power” women hold but they are so naive and quick to slip into the “I’m in love” trance that they do not claim that power. What power am I referring to? The power of the vagina! (Okay we are all grown here)

When we talk about this particular power what do we possibly mean? Simple- women can dominate men in their relationships if they tapped more into their feminine side and seduced a man from every angle- from her personality, her poise, her smarts and the ability to know how to use her “paradise”. One way to gain that dominance? Rationing the goods! Most women can go longer without sex than men. However, women kill the chance to own that power because they so willingly give it up and when they do the men claim that power. In the meantime the woman is too far-gone because ladies lets not play the fool we all know our HEARTS LIVE IN OUR VAGINAS. So when we do not protect it the right way or treat it with its crown of glory we allow our men to take authority of our emotions and soon they don’t have to ask - we willingly give.

An example that men know the power of a woman more than she does is something one guy said pertaining to the subject. He states, “I agree, [a woman’s vagina is more powerful than a man’s (private) ] in any conceivable scenario! Women either don’t understand the magnitude of their power or just give it away. Men are only more powerful and influential because women let us be.”

So ladies how do you lose your power? It’s not just in the sheets. It’s everything about you. It’s how you handle yourself outside of the bedroom. There’s no better phrase to use here except “lady in the streets, freak in the bed”. It’s about being conservative about your business and your relationship with your man. That means showing him that you are a woman in every aspect of the way. Grab his attention not only between the heavenly curves between your legs but capture his attention through your speech, your composure and your intellect. Make him feel that he not only wants you but that he needs you. All of these things make him want you more intimately and before you even give him some he is already hooked! Now once you release the power that your paradise holds he is caught in that trap and you have re gained your power!

Men know it and ladies should know it as well- no “paradise” is the same. Not all women are capable of producing good fruit on that “paradise”. What deducts the foundation of good fruit? The way you treat it- fruit should be handled well, kept fertilized so that the paradise lives up to its reputation. In other words, keep it clean, groomed and DON’T LET EVERYONE EXPERIENCE THE TRIP TO YOUR PARADISE. The more visitors you have the more those visitors will talk and no one wants to go where everyone else has been! The more visitors you allow the more the quality decreases. Point blank!

When you willingly allow multiple partners between your sheets other men will take notice and they will not see you as something precious but as something easy. Your paradise has lost its power and its up for auction now. Reclaim it!

I must say, I have to give it up to the men because right now they are winning! And it’s not by their own power but it’s by the women. Women are letting them win each time. Their actions, their insecurities, and failure to treat that paradise for what it is. If women can’t tap into their power then it gives all the room for a man to tap into it for them!

The Written Words Of AJT

2 comments:

Char V said...

Well written girl! I completely agree and I will keep all of this sound advice in mind. I will also add, it is not necessarily a conscious choice on the part of women to "give up" their power through settling for a more subservient role to their male partner. We're definitely socialized to feel that our role is to give him what he wants and to let him dominate. If only we were taught our power and the advantages to owning our precious jewel until we absolutely have him...

Anonymous said...

Interesting words indeed. Some good points in this. One more addition I would comment on is that lady should also increase growth of man intellectually. show that you are just as knowledgeable about wide variety of topics. If man can talk to lady all day with meaningful conversation then lady is that much more the full package.